What attracts mostly men to violent movies and TV? How about the Roman Coliseum, where both sexes enjoyed the lethal violence? Is there a hate / violence connection there? Does vicarious violence provide a less destructive outlet for aggression or create more? How about soccer and sport fan beatings? Wasn’t the original purpose for the Olympics to release tension to reduce wars?
Fortunately we have poets, artists, most writers and playwrights to look for beauty, acceptance and reconciliation.